Black men write the realest relationship books My eyes have been opened I ve started to Spartan up already IRL thanks to this book.It s a lot of the same tried and true classic advice talk to men you meet in your everyday life but put in a down to earth and memorable way that doesn t make it seem like he s some kind of wiser than thou guru a closed mouth doesn t get fed And he doesn t hold back He gives you a reality check while at the same time telling you to trust yourself and live like you re a queen Believe in yourself, be selfish, go for what you want, be clever about communicating like don t ask if he wants to get married someday over appetizers type of advice, he doesn t recommend pick up artist BS , and if he isn t what you want don t waste time on him that s basically the book in a nutshell After reading this I feel like other dating authors are holding back Lambert covers almost every single dating situation you could find yourself in, good or bad I enjoyed the slang he used and the characterizations he painted, but weak bitches may be sensitive to the swearing or hip hop characterizations. Everything laid out nicely Get you a man in 3.5 seconds Great book for all, not singles only Helps marrieds level up too Re visit chapters if stuck in situation ships as well Good readGood informative read I like his honesty and directness I m curious to read his other books and see what else he has to say Great book, great blog. Interesting male perspective on relationships Definite read. amazing, ive Followed the Blog from which the book comes from I have to personally say it is a book for those ready for a change in the right direction Everyone can give you advice on relationships but when it comes from a mans perspective it makes a difference I absolutely recommend this book again for those ready for change. You are the type of woman a man marries Yet you settle for being just another girl men string along Regardless of what commitment level you find yourself in, if you have yet to receive the ultimate commitment from the man you want, you are still SINGLE Stop waiting for a man to ask you out Stop waiting for a man to make your relationship exclusive Stop waiting for a man to reward your loyalty with an engagement ring Stop waiting, period Learn to free yourself from relationship purgatory and get the lasting commitment you deserve Solving Single is a system that will eliminate your relationship problems by breaking years of habits, erasing preconceived notions, and unlocking the power every woman has over every man Solving Single is the key that will unlock the male mind, allowing you to instantly get noticed by any man, sidestep manipulation from those who just want sex, and attain a legitimate romance There is no need to think like a man, lower your standards, or play his game Solving Single will show you how to win on your own terms no matter what faults you think you possess Stop waiting for your love life to fix itself and learn the definite steps to solving single.